1. Make connections.
   Keep in touch with family, friends and others. Connecting with people provides social support and strengthens resilience. Some people find comfort in connecting with a higher power, whether through organized religion or privately.

2. Help yourself by helping others.
   Assisting others in a time of need, such as doing volunteer work at a community organization or helping families of active reservists or military personnel serving in the war, can be empowering.

3. Maintain a daily routine.
   Keeping up with your daily routine of work, errands, household chores and hobbies provides you with a feeling of stability when the world around you seems chaotic. Sticking with a routine can be comforting to your children as well.

4. Take care of yourself.
   Make time to eat properly, exercise and rest. Schedule time for things you enjoy, such as hobbies and social activities. Caring for yourself and even having fun will help you stay balanced and enable you to better deal with stressful times.

5. Give yourself a "news" break.
   Be sure to control the amount of time you and your family spend watching and reading war-related news coverage. Although it's natural to seek out the news to keep informed, too much news can make you more anxious. Consider limiting your news intake to no more than one hour a day, and try not to watch the news right before you go to bed, when you need to "wind down." It's okay to turn off the TV or radio and allow yourself to focus on non-war-related things.

6. Have a plan.
   Having an emergency plan in place will make you feel in control and prepared for the unexpected. Establish a clear plan for how you, your family, and friends will respond and connect in the event of a crisis. Have a family or neighborhood meeting to talk about whom to call in emergencies or designate a place to meet if you can't reach someone by phone. Make a plan for your pets and a list of items you will need to take in an emergency.

7. Prepare a security kit.
   When pulling together an emergency kit, remember to include those things that give you comfort and security, such as a favorite book, a journal, or pictures of loved ones. Also include a list of your loved ones' phone numbers so that you can reestablish connections with them as soon as possible.

8. Nurture a positive view of yourself.
   Recall the ways you have successfully handled hardships in the past, such as the loss of a loved one, a divorce or a major illness. Draw on these skills to meet current challenges. Trust yourself to solve problems and make appropriate decisions.

9. Keep things in perspective.
   Even when facing very painful events, try to consider the stressful situation in a broader context and keep a long-term perspective. Remember that wars end, and circumstances can ultimately improve. Previous generations have faced war and gone on to prosper — use their examples to inspire you.

10. Maintain a hopeful outlook.
    An optimistic and positive outlook enables you to see the good things in your life and can keep you going even in the hardest times. There are positive things in everyone's life, such as good health, a comfortable home and strong friendships. Taking the time to identify and appreciate them will enhance your outlook and help you persevere.

In times of war, it is not unusual for people to have feelings of uncertainty. Resilience can be an important part of your emergency preparedness kit. It is a psychological tool that can help us deal with anxiety, fear and distressful events in a time of war.

Developing resilience is a personal journey. An approach to building resilience that works for you might not work for someone else. If you are feeling stuck or overwhelmed and unable to use the tips listed above, you may want to consider talking to someone who can help, such as a psychologist or other mental health professional. Turning to someone for guidance may help you strengthen your resilience and persevere in a time of war.

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Information contained in this brochure should not be used as a substitute for professional health and mental health care or consultation. Individuals who believe they may need or benefit from care should consult a psychologist or other licensed health/mental health professional.

Acknowledgments:

APA gratefully acknowledges the following contributors to this publication:

Colonel Lyle W. Carlson, PhD
Department of Psychology, Medical Services Corps

Robin Gurwitch, PhD
University of Oklahoma Health Sciences Center

Nancy Molitor, PhD
Assistant professor of Psychiatry and Behavior Science, Northwestern University Medical School; Independent Practice, Evanston, Ill.

H. Katherine (Kit) O'Neill, PhD
North Dakota State University and Knowlton, O'Neill and Associates, Fargo, N.D. 

Ronald S. Palomares, PhD
Assistant executive director, Practice Directorate, American Psychological Association

Cmdr. Morgan Sammons, PhD
Navy Mental Health Department, Annapolis, Md.

APA, located in Washington, DC, is the largest scientific and professional organization representing psychology in the United States. Its membership includes nearly 130,000 researchers, educators, clinicians, consultants and students. APA works to advance psychology as a science and profession and as a means of promoting health, education and human welfare.

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